Our family is lucky enough to have people who love us all over world. Seriously, we have family and friend all over the United States, Australia, New Zealand, The Middle East, and South America. Michael and I love to travel, and are very excited to take Jack on many adventures. I tried to find blogs from other mom's about traveling with a baby, but most of them were for ones over 6-months-old. I wanted to know what it was like traveling with a baby that can't even sit up yet. So I hope this post helps someone who is up at midnight the night before a trip with their very little one and finds some relief.
This will be a three part post. Next will be air travel, then traveling without baby for the first time.
For the Fourth of July weekend, we went up to Michael's sister's house just outside Sacramento. To avoid the insane traffic from the people heading that way to Lake Tahoe, we decided to leave at 8 PM Wednesday night. Jack goes to bed around that time and usually can fall asleep in the car easily. So, I thought we would get him all ready for bed, put him in the car drowsy and he'd be asleep by the time we hit the freeway. Then he would sleep for the 2 or so hours there, wake for a feeding when we take him out, and then he'll go right back to bed for the night. We did something similar when we went to Sonoma for the day. He slept most of the way their so I thought this would be just as easy.
|He was good and sleepy, so we got in the car.|
|Daddy took too long and now I'm wide awake.|
|This last about 35 minutes.|
Jack had a very fun first Independence Day otherwise. We drove to Lake Tahoe on Saturday to see some friends. Jack did better on that ride. He slept longer because we left right at his nap time. And this time we pulled over when he got crabby. I also brought toys to amuse him when he woke up. On Sunday when we left, he did better as well. There was less traffic so he slept more and only fussed when we were 15 minutes away from home.
|Going home was a lot happier. I covered him |
up to block the sun so he would sleep longer.
My Advice for Road Trips:
- Plan for everything to go wrong. That way it's not stressful if it happens. I was so sure everything was going to work out great that I was not prepared for it to fall apart.
- Make a plan and STICK TO IT. Improvising will only add stress to you and the baby. If you plan on putting the baby down sleeping in the car like I wanted to, make sure you actually are on the road so they actually go to sleep. I should have made sure everything was packed and done before I ever put Jack in the bath. I should have not put Jack in the car until Michael was in the car first. I should told him his sister didn't need the garage door opener (she has a key to house she should could still get in) and made him just get on the freeway. I still believe it would have worked (or at least gone better) if we stuck to the plan.
- Check traffic conditions. I didn't check traffic until we hit a major backup. I thought for sure we would have missed all the commuters and people who left for Tahoe right after work. We would have taken a back road out the Bay Area and gotten on a different freeway if we had checked first. It probably would have cut 2 hours off our trip. Two hours less stress for Jack.
- Pull over if baby gets too mad. I don't know why I didn't yell for Michael to pull over so I could comfort nurse him back to drowsy. Then he would have been happy and quiet stuck in traffic at least.
- Bring more milk than you think you need. I only brought one 2 ounce bottle with us. Jack downed that pretty quick and wanted more. And he was even madder when there wasn't more. I didn't plan on him being awake and demanding milk! I should have either brought a bag from my freezer stash or just brought my pump to pump as needed in the car.
- Keep the baby at a good temperature. I bundled Jack all up and once he started screaming, he was dripping in sweat. I ended up pulling off layers through the carseat to cool him down. Likewise, if you are blasting the AC to stay cool, make sure you are not freezing your baby. Try for one simple base layer then adding blankets as needed.
- Bring entertainment. I also did not pack Jack any toys for the car because I assumed he would be asleep. So when he woke up and had nothing to do, he became bored. An angry baby that is also bored is never a good thing.
- Bring something soothing. We gave Jack Michael's old cell phone (deactivated most of the settings) so we can play soothing music for him. This didn't help much driving that night since Jack was way overtired, but on most other road trips it helps lull him to sleep.