So nothing about this post is particularly vegan. But if you have a vegan man in your life, no reason why you can't take the general idea and substitute in vegan foods. Like my seitan ribs, some tofurky brats, my German potato salad, and some fresh grilled veggies...man, that sounds good---can it be summer now?
His party was at the same time as my shower.We kept the invitations simple---if a women invited to my shower had a guy Michael wanted to invite, we stuck this insert in her formal invitation. Otherwise, he just emailed them a date and time to show up. Men don't usually need or care about fancy invites, so we didn't waste money on them.
|Just realized our orange serape matches the theme...|
I didn't put up too many decorations because, once again, men don't usually notice stuff like that. Just a few black and orange table clothes, a banner, and a few Giants signs we had already. I didn't spend too much time on decorating (unlike for my baby shower). Just make it look nice and walk away. No fuss.
|Appetizers when you first walked in the door. |
Simple decorations to set the theme.
I set-up the "appetizers" table before I left for my shower. Veggie platter, nachos, chips, potato salad, chocolate-covered pretzel rods, and baseball cupcakes (rods and cupcakes made by my very talented best friend).
|This was SO cute, even the boys didn't |
want to take a cupcake and ruin it.
I left the meat for Michael to cook. We borrowed our brother-in-law's smoker to do some ribs. He barbecued some turkey dogs (a lot of his friends are Indian and don't eat beef), hot links, and buffalo wings. Don't have pictures of all that because I wasn't there....and to be honest I don't like taking picture of meat seeing as I am vegan....
|MLB plates were on sale at Party City, couldn't resist.|
Drinks consisted of tropical punch (one can of passion orange guava juice and a liter of sprite, watered down to taste with ice), and of course beer.
|Giants themed pretzel rods made my my BFF.|
The boys just ate, drank, played dominoes, listened to music, and watched sports on TV. Nothing fancy but they all had a good time. After my baby shower was over, some of the women came over to join them. Yeah, that's right---my baby shower had an after party! Some of the boys ordered the Canelo vs. Angulo fight on pay-per-view, which kept the party going till around 11 PM. Even though I was tired, it was nice to see friends and family enjoying themselves so I didn't mind.
So, if your man cringes at the idea of going to your baby shower, I highly suggest throwing him a man shower instead. Yes, you are the one doing all the hard working making the baby, but dads need some love and appreciation too.
Here is my advice on how to throw a successful man shower:
- Keep it simple. Men don't usually like complicated or elaborate themes or events without any women around.
- Simple decorations set the mood, without your man's friends thinking his wife is totally controlling him.
- Serve good, basic foods with lots of flavor. This is not the time try something from your molecular gastronomy cookbook. Serve some of your husband's favorites along with some party staples like chips and dip.
- Don't make the drinks too complicated either. Some good beers or good spirits should please everyone.
- Don't forget the non-alcoholic drinks like punch, soda, or water as well. Not everyone drinks and you don't want your guests getting too drunk.
- Give them optional games and activities. Men don't usually want to play shower games like "Whose Features Does Mommy Want For Baby", but once the food is gone they need something to keep from getting bored. Check to see if there is a game or event on TV they can watch. Set out cards, dominoes, or poker chips they can bust out when they feel competitive after a few drinks.But don't set a schedule or force them into things.
- Let boys be boys. If you come home and see your husband did nothing the way you would have wanted, let it go. It's his party. As long as he and his friends are having good time, that's all that matters.
- Except when he forgets to make sure your cats are locked in the bedroom beforehand so they don't get scared and run off during the party. You can give him the evil eye as your search for them high and low, in the dark, 9 months pregnant, and in a pretty dress!